#53 Morning Routines Are Overrated (Until You Make Them Yours)
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Welcome back to this week’s edition of Peak Performance Insider.
Let’s get something straight about morning routines.
You don’t need to wake up at 5AM to win the day.
You don’t need a checklist of ten things before breakfast to feel like you’re crushing life.
I’ve done it.
The 5AM alarms. Lemon water. Oil pulling. Breathwork. Journaling. Gratitude lists. Meditation. Reading. Working out.
And I’ll be honest, it worked. Until it didn’t.
Because the moment I skipped one thing?
I felt like the day was already a write-off. Like I had failed before the day even began.
That’s the trap most people fall into with morning routines.
It becomes a performance, not a practice.
If your morning routine feels like a second job, it’s time to rethink it.
📌 Today’s Agenda
✅ Why most morning routines fail
✅ What the science actually supports
✅ A simple framework to build YOUR routine
✅ The personal lesson that changed everything for me
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🧠 Personal Growth & Mindset
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A fascinating look at how connection, balance, and nature, not routines or productivity hacks, drive real happiness.
👥 Leadership & Influence
🔹 What Business Leaders Can Learn From Libraries About Growth
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📈 Productivity & Habits
🔹 The Hidden Costs of Poor Time Management (What Leaders Must Know)
Time mismanagement doesn’t just waste hours, it silently drains performance, morale, and potential.
💪 Health & Wellness
🔹 Vagus Nerve Reset: A Science-Backed Technique for Anxiety
A simple yet powerful method to regulate stress and improve your mental state, perfect for grounding your mornings.
✍️ Deep Dive: The Morning Routine Myth
A few years ago, I was working with a Tony Robbins Results Coach.
I remember showing up to one session stuck in my own head, frustrated that my days weren’t feeling productive, because my morning routine was slipping.
I had built this elaborate process.
If I didn’t wake up before 5AM, drink lemon water, oil pull, journal, meditate, breathe, move, and start deep work before 8AM...
I’d write the whole day off.
I was trying to optimize everything, but I ended up overcomplicating everything.
And I’ll never forget what my coach said:
“What would this look like if it were easy?”
That was the breakthrough.
A morning routine isn’t supposed to be a hurdle.
It’s supposed to be the on-ramp, a frictionless system that sets you up for your day without draining your willpower before 9AM.
We often confuse more steps with more effectiveness. But your brain craves simplicity, especially when you wake up.
If it’s not easy to start, it’s unlikely to become consistent.
So I stripped it back.
I focused on the things that moved the needle:
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Light exposure to anchor my circadian rhythm
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Movement to wake up my body
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Hydration to fuel my brain
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A moment of breathwork or quiet reflection to center my mind
Some mornings I do more. Some I do the minimum.
But I always do something.
Not because I’m chasing perfection, but because I’m committed to my state.
🧩 What the Research Actually Says
Forget trends. Here’s what science actually backs:
✅ Sunlight Within an Hour of Waking:
Exposure to natural light first thing in the morning helps reset your circadian rhythm, regulates cortisol, and enhances alertness throughout the day.
✅ Movement:
Even light physical activity in the morning improves mood and cognitive function by increasing blood flow and stimulating the production of brain-derived neurotrophic factor (BDNF), which supports learning and memory.
✅ Hydration:
After 6-8 hours of sleep, the body is mildly dehydrated. Starting your day with water enhances cognitive performance, particularly short-term memory and attention.
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Source: Cognitive Performance and Dehydration — Journal of the American College of Nutrition
✅ Mindfulness and Reflection:
Practices like meditation, deep breathing, or journaling reduce cortisol levels, improve emotional regulation, and enhance focus for the day ahead.
Everything else — cold plunges, oil pulling, etc. — can be valuable if they feel good to you, but they’re not essential.
Chase what creates real energy, not what just looks good on a checklist.
🛠 How to Build Your Own Morning Routine
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Define Your Purpose:
What’s the primary benefit you want from your morning? Energy, focus, calm, clarity? -
Choose 2-3 Essentials:
Pick the habits that directly deliver on that purpose, backed by evidence or your own experience. -
Set a Minimum Standard:
On low-energy days, what’s your non-negotiable? It might just be water, light, and a stretch. -
Stay Adaptive:
Some days you’ll have time for more. Some days you won’t. What matters is that you do something. -
Guard Your Sleep:
None of this matters if your sleep is trash. Prioritize a good night’s sleep before perfecting your morning.
⚡️ Work With Me
If you’ve ever felt stuck chasing the “perfect” routine or the “right” system, I get it.
I’ve been there. Caught up in doing more instead of focusing on what actually matters.
That’s what coaching is for.
Not to give you another system, but to help you create the clarity and alignment you need to move forward, in a way that fits your life, your energy, your goals.
If that’s what you’re looking for, let’s talk.
📅 Book a 1:1 strategy session here.
No pressure. Just a conversation about where you are and where you want to go.
🎯 That's a Wrap
There’s no perfect morning routine.
There’s just the one that helps you show up the way you want, consistently.
You don’t need more steps.
You need to feel ready to own your day, your way.
So ask yourself:
What’s the simplest version of my morning that helps me show up fully, not just once, but over and over?
Then start there. Keep it simple. Keep it yours.
See you next Monday,
— Rafic Osseiran
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